Remember when you two were dating each other. Have you had times when you had nothing to say to another? Probably not.
When a couple reaches the point of not having anything to say to each other, their marriage is in serious trouble. Here are some tips on why the conversation in a marriage is essential, and topics to address.
Andre Maurois, French novelist and essayist, wrote: "A happy marriage is a long conversation that always seems too short. "
Most people do not marry someone they can not speak. A good conversation is when you are both contributing to the conversation.. When you have a good conversation with your spouse, you both are giving your attention
Conversation Fills many needs :.
- to be connected to another
- for your feelings and heard and respected thought.
- to learn new things.
- to sort the issues and problems.
- to discuss and explore solutions.
- to reach a mutual understanding
to talk about.
few ideas.- hobby of your spouse or other interests.
- plans for future travel together.
- memories of your childhood.
- Films or TV shows.
- the things you would like to experience or places you want to visit.
- Something that you learned during the day or something you have done differently or what new day.
- Discuss your thoughts and feelings about the day.
- share some things that made your pleasure during the day or you're grateful for that day.
- Ask questions that begin with "if you could," or "you never" or "do you. "
Although news, weather, children, jobs, money, housework, health issues, in-laws, friends, etc. are all subjects important that the two of you really talk, try not to let them be the primary focus of your conversations with each other.