When you disapprove of the marriage of your child

When you disapprove of the marriage of your child -

By Sheri Stritof

Marriage Expert

By Sheri Stritof

update April 14, 2016 .

When you disapprove of your child who chose to marry, both your wedding and marriage of your child may be negatively impacted. In addition, the relationship you have with your child can be severely damaged.

Here are the things to do and not to do in this situation.

• If your child is a minor and asks you to give legal consent to marriage, say no. Even if a pregnancy involved, say no. Do not give in to emotional blackmail your teen. Stay strong and be willing to be hated. Ask family councils to improve communication.
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• Be honest with your adult child of your concerns. Look for opportunities to get to know the partner of your child better. At dinner with them, discuss childhood memories, hopes and dreams, etc.
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• Although you may not like what your child says about the his / her partner, listen with an open mind. Listening to your child does not mean you agree with what is said.
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• Keep conversations about relationships and marriage in general. Be honest in your answers, but do not get the negative or blame instead on the partner of your child.
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• Know that something negative you say about the choice of your child marriage partner will be met with strong opposition and will likely set up an "us against them" sense of unity.

• Let your child know it's okay to change your mind. - Even at the last minute
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• trust in the relationship you have built between you and your child and keep communication open between you. If the choice of partner is really poor, the day will come when your child will need to turn to you for help and guidance. If this happens, do not say "I told you so ..."

• Continue to strengthen your relationship with your child as adult to adult Go. lunch, go shopping, see a movie together.

• give the gift of counsel prenuptial or engaged encounter weekend.
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• If your relationship with the spouse of your child does not improve after they are married, they accept the limitations couple decides to have in their relationship with you. do not let your disapproval become a wedge between you and your child.
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• If the two of you disagree on the person or disagree why your child should or should not marry, your own wedding can be negatively affected. Even if you agree on the status of the spouse of your child, the stress of the conflict with your child can hurt your marriage . Make time for each other and work on your own wedding.
  

• Do not let a lack of will to get to know your child's spouse is cheating you of a relationship with your child and grandchildren.
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