Have you realized that even minor irritating behaviors can eventually make you allergic to any annoying habits of your spouse?
social Allergy Research Study in romantic relationships
A US government National Institute of Child Health and Development Grant (HD042245-01A2) funded a research study over 0 relations at the University of Louisville. The study found that over time your spouse is annoying you by repeating filthy and uncouth habits, you become more upset.
According to an article in the time in the UK on Sunday by Roger Dobson and Lois Rogers, the report, "Social Allergies in romantic relationships: behavioral rehearsal, emotional awareness and dissatisfaction in Dating Couples". "Bad habits and nasty divorce 'in show the link between
Deromanticisation
These results really should not come as a surprise to anyone who has been married.
most spouses feel bad habits as disrespectful and may lead to a lack of romance in a marriage. Some people refer to this behavior in a marriage as "deromanticisation" .
the research also indicated that men generally violated more behavioral standards and are coarser than women, but that women seemed more reckless and intrusive than men.
" the basic concept that things become more painful over time is something that has never been seen before. Relatively minor unpleasant behaviors seem to affect the emotions of a partner in a way that resembles how physical function of allergens. The first experience is likely to produce a small negative reaction, but repeated contact increases sensitivity. "" wet towels on the floor of the bathroom cause mild irritation. But the reaction becomes stronger each time it happens. With repeated exposure, it can produce a social allergy -. a reaction of hypersensitive annoyance or disgust "
Source of information about the study
Michael R. Cunningham Stephen R. Shamblen, Anita P. Barbee and Lara K. Ault
"social allergies in romantic relationships :. behavioral rehearsal, emotional awareness, and dissatisfaction in couples dating "
University of Louisville, University of the Holy Family
personal relationships , vol.
12, No. 2 (June 05), pp. 273-295.
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