Every married couple will be disagreements. One of the keys to a successful relationship is how to manage conflict.
It is important to remember that trying to avoid conflict, walking on egg shells so to speak, afraid to rock the boat, or the maintenance of peace at any price will definitely hurt your marriage
How to manage conflict in your marriage
Here are some ways to manage marital conflict and resolve differences :.
Make sure you clarify what you are discussing.
If any of you are too angry to discuss the situation or problem, and then set a time to meet later to discuss.
Be flexible and open to solutions other than your own. A willingness to compromise is important.
Do not push each other buttons. Do not be sarcastic or attack one of the self-image of another.
Do not interrupt the other. Listen. Be aware of your own body language and what it can say.
Speak in a calm and friendly voice. Ranting and raving accomplishes nothing.
Remember that a fair argument can improve a marriage. Fight for your marriage, not winning.
