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By Sheri Stritof
Marriage Expert
by Sheri Stritof
Whether or not write love letters was part of your yard for days together, consider writing letters love your spouse now. Do not let the love letters become a lost art in your marriage. Here are some tips to get you started and to help keep your REAL love letters.
Take time to write a love letter when you feel close to your partner and when you are not rushed.
does not set up a calendar reminder / email to harass you by writing a love letter. Receive a love letter on the 16th of each month is not romantic. Nobody wants to feel like they have just been checked on a list of things to do.
Keep and use beautiful stationery and a pleasant writing pen when you write your love letters.
Read some words of Keats. They can inspire your own creative juices you write a love letter to your spouse.
Do not try to be poetic or flowery or sugary or pasty if it's not who you are. If "Hi Honey" is the way you talk, then who will make more sense than "My dear darling" and will be more real to your spouse.
Please do not copy a love letter that you find in a book or online. Do not use a template or formula every time you write a love letter. Write what is in your heart.
Express your appreciation for who your spouse is.
Be honest that you compliment your spouse. Do not handle. Your spouse will by manipulating
Describe your feelings as you write your thoughts
A few ideas to write: .. Share how your spouse has touched your heart, share a favorite memory of your spouse, talk about a song that reminds you of your spouse. But do not do all three in the same love letter. Keep your love letter focused, simple and honest.
Try not to drool.
It is correct to speak of passion and desire and the desire to love and be attracted to your spouse in your love letter, but do not use a love letter as a means put the guilt on your spouse if your sex life is not what you want it to be.
Make sure you use a love letter as a confessional. That is not why you are writing a love letter to your spouse.
Do not worry about making your perfect love letter. It does not have to be exquisite to affirm your love for your spouse.
Send some of your letters to your spouse by mail.
Write love notes short and hiding notes around your house. These notes can be on scraps of paper or sticky notes!
