You might not realize that you neutered your spouse with your actions, inadvertently damaging his ego and your relationship. Perhaps there is a hint of non-compliance or if you are generally an "alpha" female. Many men have their worst fears realized after their marriage and suddenly find themselves wondering what happened to them
Here are five ways that you might be emasculating your husband :.
1. You say that he is a coward or a weakling
Tell a man he is loose or a chicken is a safe way to castrate. Expect a man to be able to calmly handle every situation thrown his way is unreasonable. the low appeal, scared, or small will not make him feel good and will not force him to react like you think it should. Perhaps it is time to realize that he is human too, and he needs your encouragement, your not denigrate.
2. You let him know that you could do better
Tell a man that you could be with someone who is richer, strong, or more successful is another way to castrate.
saying these things make him feel worthy of you they will not inspire him to better himself. You should be with him because you love him for who he is. If you honestly thought you could do better, then you probably should have. No man wants to be reminded that you had or still have options that you find most appealing. If you do this then you need to look in the mirror you might really hate that you see.
3. You treat him like a child
The treatment of a grown man as he is a child will not make her feel like the man that he wants to be to you. It is important to remember that he could not do things exactly how you would do or exactly on your schedule, but it will do. Do not harass, screaming, and acting as his mother must ensure he does his chores and eat his vegetables. Treat it as an adult man, he is and he will do things that must be done. Do not forget to show her that you appreciate what he does. Keep in mind that he survived very well on its own before your arrival on the scene.
4. You minimize his professional and academic achievements
If your man gets an increase that was smaller than the increase that you have, you are not forced to recall him. Do the right thing and be happy for him instead of making him feel that he can not meet your expectations. Do not rub on his face that your degree is higher than his diploma. If he did not attend university, do not tell him that if he just go, it might make more of himself. Focus instead on telling him how much he impresses you, and celebrate accomplishments.
5. You never leave the care for you
Men are proud to support and protect those they love. If you are still talking to your man that you do not need it, you castrated him. Let your man open doors for you, reach things that are too high, and open bottles stubborn. There is a misperception that these things make you look weak. They stimulate his ego and make him feel like the man in the relationship. This concerns not act like a damsel in distress to make him feel strong and masculine, just let the man is the man!
If you make some of these behaviors, take a look at your own family history. Have you seen some of this in your family, especially with your parents? Or, you have a need to control annoying? No matter where it comes from, your marriage will start to crumble if you keep it. Emasculate a man is not a form of motivation. It will not encourage or inspire him to improve. Love a man is to raise and show him what he adds to your life.
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