Each marriage relationship will be disagreements. The key to not allow this fighting to create hostility in your marriage or hurt your marriage is what you fight about, understand why you fight, how to fight fair and forgive each other.
If you and your spouse have fallen into a pattern of fighting on the same questions again and again, you need to ask yourself three questions:
1. Why are you fighting ?
2. Do you even know what you fight about?
3. Is this a question we can never solve?
What married couples fight against about
Chores
Money
children
time including time spent on the computer or watching television Recreation
sex, including pornography
infidelity
Communication
job
Be careful
Annoying habits
Jealousy
past history
Addiction
Pointless and stupid questions
in-laws
Why do married couples fight
to win or get their way
to evacuate
to control
To criticize
To release anger
To clear the air
To solve the problems
to be argumentattive
negative behaviors resulting from unfair fights in a marriage
Withdrawal
Silent Treatment
Prevention
Distance
baseness
Require
pout
breaking promises
The negative feelings resulting from fights in a marriage
